Keenan Coley threw all of his basketball gear into the closet and slammed the door shut. He couldn't stand the sight of it. The 19-year-old had just returned from California, where his college basketball career at Warren Wilson College ended on a court in Santa Cruz. His final play was fitting: a contested shot and another injury. The injury served as yet another reminder that his desire to continue in the sport he’d loved since he was five far exceeded what his body could endure.
"I was like, it'll be forever if you're waiting for me to coach," Coley told his mother, who suggested he might find his way back to basketball someday. "It's never going to happen."
In the immediate aftermath of his sudden retirement, Coley couldn’t even bring himself to go to restaurants where March Madness games were being shown on televisions. The sport that largely defined him for most of his life was something he couldn’t stand the sight of.
His inability to simply ignore basketball revealed something Coley didn't recognize at the time. The opposite of love isn't hate, but indifference. His anger toward the sport burned precisely because his passion for it remained alive.
Today, at just 22, Coley stands as the head basketball coach at his alma mater, Oxford Preparatory School in North Carolina. He’s almost certainly the youngest high school varsity head coach in the state, and quite possibly the country. His path to the sidelines seems quick and even somewhat obvious, but the road back to basketball was anything but straightforward.